everyone flirts, in their own way. Even technology has become the
catalyst to facilitate this natural instinct of many. Through the
revolution of technology, people are flirting through SMS, emails,
forum posting, online dating websites. It gets you up, and everywhere.
It boosts up your confidence, becomes a pleasure, sometimes even an
addiction.
So who makes the first move in flirting? We always believe that men
are always the one who makes the first move to flirt, but in fact most
of the times, they are just reacting to tacit gestures or signals from
women. Now this gets interesting. Through the subconscious minds, men
flirt because of a natural response from women. No matter how small or
minute or insignificant the signal or cues are, its exploded 1000
times in front of a man. And that's when a man makes his "first move".
Now men out there, sink this into your head, and open up your senses
when you are at the following 5 places where I will share with you how
you can flirt till your heart's content that you probably keep going
back for more.
Supermarkets
Groceries are done by anybody who needs to eat, which also includes
Singles who probably lives nearby. You'll see them walking down the
supermarket shelves alone, and that is the best time to pick them up.
Observe what she has in her cart, and what she's browsing. Move nearer
to her and browse for the same stuffs. See now you have a connection
brewing. If you are the wine section, and you know a thing or two
about wine, ask her what's her favorite, and recommend. Be very
friendly, tilt your head a little from time to time and smile, look
into her eyes. Remember to listen more than you talk as well. Pick a
supermarket that has a great café or bar nearby, and do the magic of
inviting her to a cuppa to continue the flirt. Singles that do
groceries alone have a strong desire for companionship and are
probably just waiting to be flirted at. So guys, open up your senses.
Cafes and Bars
People, man and women frequent Cafes and Bars to socialize, meet
friends and eat. So there's one of the best place to network up. They
are casual places which is filled with singles sitting there alone
sipping coffees. They are probably easier to approach as they would be
less defensive. Bars on the other side would not be a really good idea
especially when its during the weekends, when there are just too much
people and loud music that you can perform you flirt magic. But a
different kind of flirt works here, and that's why you're drunk and
she is, as well.
So how should you walk into a Café? Simple. Fill yourself up with
confidence, lift up your head, not too high, pull back your shoulders
pump up a bit of your chests, and walk sturdily. And at the same time,
make eye contact with as many people as you can as you move towards
your seat, slowly. Take your time. That's it, you have created an
entrance, and you are noticed. They first most import key step.
Next, you need to choose where table to sit at. Choose the one that
has the widest view of the café, and everyone who needs to go to the
toilet or order their food have to walk past you. If you want to pick
up someone making her way to the toilet, do it when she's on her way
out, and not in.
If you are in a crowded place, like a bar, and someone on the opposite
side of the room caught your eye. Slowly make eye contact. Don't
stare. Look for 5 seconds, then look away. Look another time for maybe
7 seconds, and if she looks your way, tilt your head just a little, a
smile and raise your glass. Then look away. Even if she's the most
gorgeous lady you've ever seen, control, and look away. Repeat these 2
or 3 times at minutes interval, and observe her body language. If she
smiles back, you in for it.
Office
Flirting in office is like walking on thin ice, so beware. As you are
in a professional work environment, where you have a lot of eyes
looking at you, minds and tongue wagers. So just be careful and
tactful. Adopt mild slow flirting. Always do the magic smile, paying
special attention but not too much, just enough to show that you
notice her. And when the time is ripe, it could lead to something over
lunch or after work.
Here's what you can do. Do some research on the people around you. Of
course I am talking about the ladies. Take note of their birthdays,
interests, families, likes and dislikes, what they normally eat for
lunch, cheer them up when you see a gloomy face. All these little
tricks do act up a great deal for office ladies.
Most importantly, always to be the first to greet them, smile at them,
make eye contact. That's all you really need to do actually, and
someday, you'll see apples dropping.
Overseas
This where you can easily transform yourself or plan to do things you
never dared before. As you are not in your local country, you don't
have to worry about people judging you, or the environmental pressure.
And people you meet, you probably won't see them again in your life.
So its your fail save arena. Moreover many singles often travel alone,
so that's one huge advantage and they are easier to approach and with
the mindset of travelling, you discover new places and meet new
people. They tend to be more receptive.
You'll easily lose your way when you are in a foreign country so that
makes it a natural way to talk to someone who caught your eye. If you
are already flirting, chances are that they have been flirted at
before. So ask them, and maybe you will be in for a surprise.
