We talked about dressing up for the part of sex god or goddess in preparation for the sex games you have discussed with your partner. Since you can't have sex with clothes on, this is all about removing those clothes that are easier to remove in a sexy, sultry way. When you want to do a good job of erotically disposing of your clothes you need to consider what you will be wearing underneath that silky negligee or that fun schoolgirl outfit.
You might want to choose really sexy underwear that is only slightly transparent and if you really want to get him going, you should wear something like a garter belt and stockings. Since time immemorial men have gotten quite excited over the garter and stockings on Victorian models. You also need to decide whether you are going to wear crotchless panties in daring red or sexy black or whether you would prefer the austere look of white cotton panties in preparation for a schoolgirl discipline session.
Once you have decided on the underwear and you are all dressed, you need to choose the music you want to dance to while you remove those clothes. Sexy music that I could immediately associate with sex is "You Can Leave Your Hat On" by Joe Cocker, "Erotica" by Madonna, "I Want Your Sex" by George Michael and if you want to do a more erotic belly dance while removing layers of clothing any type of middle eastern belly dancing compilation.
Make up a sensual, sexy invitation for your partner inviting him to a gentleman's club at home and specify the time, place and the dancer he will be viewing. Give him delicious glimpses by adding a sexy curvaceous photo of one hip or the side of a breast.
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Make him all excited by leaving little hints of what is to come in the days prior to the event.
Now you have the clothes, the music, the audience and the idea. You need a venue and ambience. The venue should be lighted in a romantic way or you could use red lights trained on you to create the darker eroticism of a stripper. The room must scream sex at both of you when you are done with it so use lots of red and black if you want dangerous erotica and pure white for a reenactment of a virgin captured and taken advantage of.
Practice your dance before the actual event as well and stand in front of the mirror when you do so. See what each move looks like and work more of the sensual moves in than those your body does not want to do. Remember that this is a slow dance filled with aspects of being a supreme tease. Learn to tease again by moving closer to him and then moving away. Touch him ever so lightly and then dance away from him. Start to remove an item of clothing and slowly peel it from your body with movements back towards your body to extend the tease. Turn around and wiggle your behind at your partner as you lightly make contact with him in various places.
Remember that stripping is not sleazy and that some strippers have made it an art form. I would watch some videos of strippers to see what their standard routines would include, but then I would adapt those moves to suit my body and my style. If I am not playing the cheap tart, then I want to look like the classy tease I want to be.
The key to this is accidental touch, slow sensual moves and intermittent glimpses of the prize goodies we want to get to eventually. Once you have removed the outer layers of clothing, you could continue and remove the rest yourself, but you could also get your partner to help you.
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At this point he should still be dressed as well as it is more fun to undress each other.
Make some interesting rules like clothing from this point onward should be removed without the use of hands. Make the teasing strip a dance for two now as you move together to get all those pesky clothes on the floor as quickly as possible. There are not a lot of things more sensual than the touch of lips and tongues when clothes are being removed and those hands could be busy exploring the areas already exposed.
If this little game sounds like fun, I hope it livens things up quite a lot in your bedroom. To make things even steamier, why don't you videotape your little adventures. Just make sure that the tapes are hidden well if you have any children in the house.
