Spring Break and you are single

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It is almost time for Spring Break and you are single. You don't want
to spend it alone, vegetating on the couch eating boxes of cold pizza
do you? Time to get off of your rump and start planning before the
chance of having the best time of your life passes you by.

Choosing a Destination

The first thing you want to do is decide where you want to go and who
you are going with. If you feel like going it alone, or your friends
don't have the funds to go anywhere this year, no problem. There are
plenty of places where you can go alone and still have fun.

Singles packages are a great way to meet new people, maybe even
someone special. There are packages to suit every taste from hiking
trips, safaris, cruises, just about anything you can think of. The
awesome thing about a singles cruise is that everyone else on it is
single too. There will be tons of opportunities to get to know people
on the ship. You can expect events like meet-and-greets, cocktail
parties, games and other activities. Get involved in as many of these
activities as you can. You are bound to have a blast and make cool new
friends. You might even find the love of your life.

If you don't want to go on your Spring Break vacation solo, gather a
group of friends together. Go on a spontaneous road trip, rent a beach
house together, whatever everyone gets excited about doing.

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Just make
sure your group of friends are not all couples or you will have to
endure everyone smooching except for you.

Three Top Picks

How about going with the gang to a cozy ski resort? Crested Butte,
Colorado is very friendly to the college Spring Break crowd. The
skiing conditions are fantastic with more than 1,000 acres of terrain
ranging from beginner to expert zones. If you have never been skiing
before they offer ski and snowboard classes for kids and adults. There
are lots of activities to do inside too. With over 30 bars, places to
shop, and restaurants serving anything from pizza to sushi, you will
not get bored.
Snow and ice not your thing? Pack your bags and head to sunny South
Beach, Miami.

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Flaunt your sexy body in that new swimsuit as you stroll
down the fine, white sandy beaches. South Beach is known for its wild
club scene, excellent restaurants and Art Deco District. While there
shop on Lincoln Road, see street performers, and visit artsy cafes,
studios and galleries.

If that isn't wild enough for you, it doesn't get wilder than Hedonism
in Jamaica. The best thing about Hedonism is that one price covers
everything, your room, food, drinks, and entertainment. Bring your own
huge glass and they will fill it up for you so you don't have to make
as many trips for drinks. Share a hot tub with a sexy stranger, skinny
dip at the beaches, and dance the night away. Hedonism is a relaxed
atmosphere where nearly everything from booze to nudity is tolerated.
If you spend your Spring Break here it will be one non-stop party that
you will never forget.

Do Your Research

Wherever you choose to go this Spring, be sure to get as much
information as you can. Look the place up at the library, on the
internet or talk with a travel agent. Learn about the history and
customs of your destination. Find out the best places to visit during
the day, where to stay, where to eat, and the hottest nightlife spots.

Finalize Everything

Before you embark on your journey, you should be sure to finalize your
plans. Confirm your reservations. Make an itinerary and give a copy to
someone back home in case of an emergency. If you are taking an
airplane, check your flights. Make sure you know how you will be
getting from one place to another. This is also the time to get a new
haircut, lose those last few pounds, or buy that new outfit that is
sure to get you noticed.

Know How To Pack

Pack only what you are sure you will need on your trip. Don't include
everything except for the kitchen sink just in case you might need it.
Remember you are going to have to carry all those heavy bags if you
do. Try to limit yourself to a roll-around suitcase, and one other
bag. Don't forget sunscreen!

Scoring the Hotties
Now that you have chosen your destination and have everything in
check, ready to go, here is what you really want to know. How do you
meet singles while on vacation? Well, confidence is key.

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Make eye
contact and smile at people you want to talk to. Be the first to start
a conversation, laugh, joke, be silly. This will make you more
approachable. Do not stand around like a wallflower or no one will
notice you. Spring Break is not the time to be shy. Remember: if it
doesn't work out, you most likely won't see these people again, so why
not take the chance?

Be Careful

It might not be a good idea to go off with a total stranger. There are
people who pray on tourists, particularly college girls. The last
thing you want is to get drugged, raped, get STDs or even murdered.
Don't be paranoid, just stay in a place where there are lots of
people. If you do decide to have sex, use protection.

Don't Get Too Drunk

A couple of drinks is all right, just know when to stop. You don't
want to hook up with someone who you would find totally wrong for you
when you are sober. You don't want to embarrass yourself by your
stupid drunken behavior, or blab a bunch of personal information.
Being drunk can cause you to make decisions you will regret in the
morning, so think twice before chugging too much alcohol. Barfing on
someone's shoes isn't cute and won't win you a date in the future.

Have a Blast With Friends

Go out on the town with the intentions of having fun no matter what.
If your only purpose of going is to hook up you might end up
disappointed at the end of the night. Focus on having fun with your
buddies and you will seem like a fun person to be around. You'll be
pleasantly surprised when you find someone when you weren't even
looking that hard. Even if you don't meet someone you still will have
had a great time.

Try New Things

Make the most of your vacation. Try something you have never
experienced before whether it is a local dish or an activity you have
never done before. Work up the courage to go a little out of your
comfort zone. The experience will be worth it as you will look back
years later and remember the exciting time you had during your Spring
Break.

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sexual attraction

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Sexual body language and sexual attraction is absolutely fascinating.
The fact that a person or animal gives off subconscious clues to whom
they are attracted to is amazing. Even though sexual attraction is not
necessarily imperative to procreation and the furthering of the human
race it doesn't hurt when it does occur. The fact that humans have
been practicing non verbal communication since the beginning of time
just makes it that much more interesting.

Body language differs from country to country or tribe to tribe but
one fact is universal, everyone uses it to communicate rather they
realize it or not. Everyone in the world can recognize basic body
language. An easy upward slope of the lip represents a smile or in
other words happiness/acceptance. That same pair of lips pulled
downward indicates sadness with a frown. These signs are easy
deciphered even by an infant but when it comes to sexual body language
things tend to become a bit more difficult to understand.

According to Nancy Fagan in a conversation with two people 93% of what
is being said is nonverbal. That means that only 7% of the
conversation is actually language. 23% of that 93% is actual tone and
inflection of the voice which gives a total of 70% for the actual body
language or gestures.
There are obviously many body language signs that indicate attraction
but there are also some physiological signs as well. An increase in
heart rate and perspiration would be an example of this. Usually the
only person to recognize these two signs is the person experiencing
them. Two other universal physiological signs of attraction (that can
be noticed by other people) are that of the "eyebrow dart" and pupil
dilatation. When someone is attracted to another person upon seeing
that person their eyebrows will raise for a split second. This is also
referred to as someone's "face lighting up". The eyebrow dart also
occurs within friendships. Dilatation of the pupil is another
physiological sign of attraction is. When a person sees someone or
something they like/are attracted to their pupils will become larger
(this is why poker players wear sunglasses). Although these two signs
can be noticed by other individuals they all too often are not. That
means that humans must rely on other forms of nonverbal communication
to convey sexual attraction.

Female and male sexual body language differs. Women's body language is
used to attract or reject a male. While a man's body language is often
used to get the female to succumb to his desires. After all,
biologically speaking, women are looking for a man who will provide
her with the healthiest/strongest offspring. She is looking for a man
who can provide for her families survival and protect them. A man is
looking to spread his seed. Because women have more of an investment
or repercussion from having sex (pregnancy, raising a child) she is
often more "choosy" than a male.

According to Larry Rodrigues at learnbodylanguage.com "Women often
send five times more body language messages and gestures than men in
the same time period" (Rodrigues). But men and women send many of the
same signals to show that they are attracted to another person. For
example both sexes preen. Women will often do what is known as the
"hair flip". She will run her hands through her hair to give a clear
view of her face and shoulders. Men also preen.

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They will run their
hands through their hair and pick imaginary lint off of their clothes.
While women tend to lick their lips or draw attention to their mouths
(many believe that when it comes to courtship the lips have a strong
correlation with female genitalia and is why men like red lipstick)
men are known to pull at their socks when they are attracted to a
woman.

A man wants to look like an "alpha male" to attract a female. He will
often stand as tall as possible and pull in his abdomen and flex his
chest muscles to appear larger and stronger (thus giving him the
inverted V shape that women instinctually find attractive. He will
often sit with his legs far apart and his pelvis slightly tilted
forward (referred to as a crotch display.

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Men use this to show to
imply that they are fertile). A man will also take up as much
territory as possible. That is he will spread out and take up as much
room as he can. He does this not only to look as though he is an alpha
male with a lot of "real estate" but to frighten and intimidate other
males. Even in a business situation the dominate male always takes
up/is allotted the most space.
For the most part while women are attracted to alpha males men are
attracted to women who are healthy and with in child bearing age. So
women will often try to make themselves appear smaller, cuter, and
younger. They accomplish this by employing the shoulder shrug that is
they raise and lower the shoulders to look "cute". They will often
stand or sit with their toes pointing at one another as well. They
will pull their body in tight (to make themselves look smaller) and
cross their legs (this has the added benefit of making the musculature
of their leg look bigger which in turn makes them look healthier and
more appealing to males).

There are also telling signs when a couple is mutually attracted to
one another. Besides witnessing all of the body language described
above there are a few others signs.



Interestingly, when a couple is
attracted to each other they will point their torsos at one another.
Even if they are looking in other directions, talking and interacting
with other people, their belly buttons will still be pointed at one
another. Their feet will also be pointed in one another's direction.
An intimate couple will also start to mirror one another's actions.
For example one person will take a sip of their drink and the other
will quickly follow suit.

Sexual body language varies in different countries. In the Western
world eye contact is an important indicator of sexual attraction.
While people who are friends or who are not attracted to one another
will usually give no thought to where they are looking, they will
often just look back and forth from eye to eye or at the entire face
in general. People who are attracted to one another will implore what
is known as the intimate gaze. That is they will look at one another
for a longer period of time than is usually deemed polite.

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In Asia and most of Africa the intimate gaze is always impolite and often regarded as hostile. While a man in the United States might pull at his ear
lobe in a preening manner in India this gesture simply means "I am
sorry". While making a kissing noise can be a sign of attraction
(usually what is known as a cat call and highly offensive) in American
it is the way one beckons a waiter in Mexico.

Sexual attraction, although not necessary for the furthering of the
species, is still very important. One of the main goals of human
beings is to find love and have a family. It is bred into a person's
genes to try and attract a mate that they themselves find attractive.
They use the same tool, or body language, as their ancestors used. The
importance of body language is best summed up by David Givens, Phd.
"For the past 500 million years, every member of the animal kingdom
has utilized certain signals to communicate their interest in mating.
These boil down to the message. I am harmless, I won't bite"